View Full Version : why the fuck is he obsessed with me?!!!!! (long teenage rant)
e-chan
04-19-2004, 08:20 PM
what the fuck is with this dude?! when i first met him he seemed to like me a lot but i just considered him to be a friend; then we hung out more and then he started telling people i was his gf when i already had a bf; my bf didn't like him and wanted to stop being friends with him, i said no (who the hell was he to try and control my life?) and then the dude started spreading rumors and word got to my bf that i actually liked this dude (totally untrue) and then later he broke up w/ me (which was fine w/ me, actually).
then this guy started walking me home even though it was out of his way, was walking me to all my classes even though it was out of his way, he basically wouldn't give me any space, plus he got jealous of every guy friend i talked too, and he wasn't even my bf! and he kept telling everybody and their dog he liked me, and then when i got a new bf he started talkin shit about him, and i got tired of it and ignored him for a month.
but then i felt bad, and told him i was sorry, that i should've talked things out. so we were "friends" for awhile, until he started creeping back into my life, walking me home, following me, etc. then he sends me this freaky ass email telling me he's in love with me! what the fuck?! it was scary as hell! so i put it to him staright, told him i didn't like him, never did, never would, etc. then he sends one back saying some bs, and then i ignored him again.
then about a month ago he sends me another email, some bullshit like "best friends are forever" and some shit, ugh it was sickening! well, friday was my b-day, tell me why this dude has 10 helium balloons, a small cake w/ my name on it, 2 $20 shirts, a new soccer ball, and candy delivered to my soccer practice that day?! what the fuck?! i haven't spoken to the guy in 2 months, and then all this? i couldn't even believe he remembered! it was nice and all, but...it made me nervous. and then in the card there was this long ass message, more bd about "best friends". for the third time, what the fuck?! how am i your best friend? yeah, best friends ignore each other cause they think the other is a stalker and is obsessed w/ them! yeah!
i sent a thanks email, figuring he deserved it, i actually wore one of the shirts to school today, and was gonna say thanks in person, but dude makes me nervous as hell and i hid from him, and i know he saw! shit! there! i don't know what to do, i don't want him to think i'm ungrateful but shit, he SCARES me! and there's so much more shit he did that's weird that i won't even get into! shit!
Ctoit
04-19-2004, 08:28 PM
Can you say STALKER...........run fer the hills
GottaHurt
04-19-2004, 09:22 PM
You might want to have your parents and/or the principle contact his parents before you become a statistic.
Chris
04-20-2004, 06:04 AM
Well, the topic u made was "Why does he like u"(u should know that as you created it). Ask him? Ask his friends, ask anyone who would know...
First, don't feel bad for making him feel bad. He's making you feel bad, right? Guilt sucks; avoid it.
Second, tell someone with some authority that this guy is stalking you. If you tell a teacher or other school person, they will freak out on him.
i don't want him to think i'm ungrateful but shit, he SCARES me! and there's so much more shit he did that's weird that i won't even get into! shit!
Third, you are ungrateful. That is not a criticism, merely an observation. Consider: you don't want all of the crap he gets you, you don't want his attention, you complain that he is forcing himself into your life, but you wear the shirt he got you. Bad form. That just reinforces his perception that you want him around.
You might consider telling him that you really don't want him around. You might even tell him that he creeps you out. You might also wind up as a statistic.
The_DEA
04-20-2004, 09:02 AM
what the fuck is with this dude?! when i first met him he seemed to like me a lot but i just considered him to be a friend; then we hung out more and then he started telling people i was his gf when i already had a bf; my bf didn't like him and wanted to stop being friends with him, i said no (who the hell was he to try and control my life?) and then the dude started spreading rumors and word got to my bf that i actually liked this dude (totally untrue) and then later he broke up w/ me (which was fine w/ me, actually).
then this guy started walking me home even though it was out of his way, was walking me to all my classes even though it was out of his way, he basically wouldn't give me any space, plus he got jealous of every guy friend i talked too, and he wasn't even my bf! and he kept telling everybody and their dog he liked me, and then when i got a new bf he started talkin shit about him, and i got tired of it and ignored him for a month.
but then i felt bad, and told him i was sorry, that i should've talked things out. so we were "friends" for awhile, until he started creeping back into my life, walking me home, following me, etc. then he sends me this freaky ass email telling me he's in love with me! what the fuck?! it was scary as hell! so i put it to him staright, told him i didn't like him, never did, never would, etc. then he sends one back saying some bs, and then i ignored him again.
then about a month ago he sends me another email, some bullshit like "best friends are forever" and some shit, ugh it was sickening! well, friday was my b-day, tell me why this dude has 10 helium balloons, a small cake w/ my name on it, 2 $20 shirts, a new soccer ball, and candy delivered to my soccer practice that day?! what the fuck?! i haven't spoken to the guy in 2 months, and then all this? i couldn't even believe he remembered! it was nice and all, but...it made me nervous. and then in the card there was this long ass message, more bd about "best friends". for the third time, what the fuck?! how am i your best friend? yeah, best friends ignore each other cause they think the other is a stalker and is obsessed w/ them! yeah!
i sent a thanks email, figuring he deserved it, i actually wore one of the shirts to school today, and was gonna say thanks in person, but dude makes me nervous as hell and i hid from him, and i know he saw! shit! there! i don't know what to do, i don't want him to think i'm ungrateful but shit, he SCARES me! and there's so much more shit he did that's weird that i won't even get into! shit!
kill him thats a good idea
e-chan
04-20-2004, 09:40 AM
Third, you are ungrateful. That is not a criticism, merely an observation. Consider: you don't want all of the crap he gets you, you don't want his attention, you complain that he is forcing himself into your life, but you wear the shirt he got you. Bad form. That just reinforces his perception that you want him around.
ok, good point. so, i am ungrateful, i didn't want the shit, didn't ask him for shit--but i still wore the shirt, which is letting him think i wanna be "best friends" (?) again. ok, i understand my mistake.
i've told him before that he "creeps me the fuck out" when i replied to his email that said he loved me. (shudder.) but luckily, he hasn't be stalking me anymore. but he still looks at me when i pass him in the hallways, even though i'm trying to avoid him.
ok, but now i have to tell him again thank you, cause like i said i wanted to do it in person but i freaked, how can i tell him thank you...without having to get near him and seeming like i mean it but WITHOUT inviting him back in my life? i know that's a tough one but i can't figure it out, damnit.
Ctoit
04-20-2004, 11:21 AM
Third, you are ungrateful. That is not a criticism, merely an observation. Consider: you don't want all of the crap he gets you, you don't want his attention, you complain that he is forcing himself into your life, but you wear the shirt he got you. Bad form. That just reinforces his perception that you want him around.
ok, good point. so, i am ungrateful, i didn't want the shit, didn't ask him for shit--but i still wore the shirt, which is letting him think i wanna be "best friends" (?) again. ok, i understand my mistake.
i've told him before that he "creeps me the fuck out" when i replied to his email that said he loved me. (shudder.) but luckily, he hasn't be stalking me anymore. but he still looks at me when i pass him in the hallways, even though i'm trying to avoid him.
ok, but now i have to tell him again thank you, cause like i said i wanted to do it in person but i freaked, how can i tell him thank you...without having to get near him and seeming like i mean it but WITHOUT inviting him back in my life? i know that's a tough one but i can't figure it out, damnit.Y
You don't -------that's the point, any little look, hello, thank-you will start the ball rolling all over again..........and I'd be damn sure my curtains were shut and windows lock.....
You don't -------that's the point, any little look, hello, thank-you will start the ball rolling all over again..........and I'd be damn sure my curtains were shut and windows lock.....
Damned straight.
Chris
04-20-2004, 12:19 PM
Freaks you out, eh? He's probably a perv, wnating to see stuff. You hot? In that case, that might be what he's after. You were good friends, a long time ago, maybe you did/said something then that might have lead him onto "weird" thoughts...try to find out what he likes about you, and make him not like it. If that's not possible, kill him
2BOrNot2B
04-21-2004, 09:38 AM
don't be a fuckin sissy, walk up to him, bitch-slap him to get his complete attention.. and tell him that he freaks you out! tell him the truth!
and then, if he has any sort of of commen sense, he'll most likely stop..
.. if not.. he's psychotic! therefore follow through with youknowthedeal's plan..
otepsoul
04-21-2004, 09:44 AM
or maybe be he is a rapist.idk he might be.
a new soccer ball eh?There's something wrong here
AK_SLIMER
04-22-2004, 01:41 PM
just sleep with him and be done with it
tharuz
04-25-2004, 06:47 PM
leave that shit alone, you should have sent someone to kick his ass after that bf breakig up thing and all that stalking bullshit, returned his shit, and sent him your guy friends to kill him, now he left you alone, now you can`t do that above, throw his shirts in the garbage, and block his E-mail, fucking losers with no life
Deez Nutz
04-26-2004, 11:14 AM
Jes tell him that you don't like him and you think he's stalking you. If he still does shit after that: Paint his balls red, put him naked in a rodeo with a bull, watch and enjoy.
merfer!
04-26-2004, 03:37 PM
Obivously this guy has a major problem and poses a potential threat to you. Don't you watch tv? Stalkers do kill the person they are obsessed with. I would definitly put matters into someone else's hands. Someone with lots of authority. Don't talk to him, look at him, nothing. Be careful where you go alone too. You never know where he might be! :sword:
Girls.suck
04-27-2004, 03:59 PM
:cool: Tell him to fuck off. that always works :mfinger:
Apoplectic
05-09-2004, 04:57 PM
You could try screwing him. There is a window opportunity about ten minutes long right after a guy comes where he will want to get away from you. Try to keep him around to cuddle. He will shun you like the plague - at least until he wants to come again. If he likes to cuddle - well now you are really in deep. But seriously - let him know you don't like him and tell your parents about the problem. He is obsessed.
GottaHurt
05-09-2004, 05:08 PM
Don't you watch tv ?
Yes I do, I don't eat, I don't sleep, my ashtrays are overflowing, my carpets stained with piss, dishes piled up, magazines littered everywhere, and Ed McMahon still hasn't fucking showed up! Dear Abby, what am I to do...
Cain9696
05-17-2004, 12:53 PM
what the fuck is with this dude?! when i first met him he seemed to like me a lot but i just considered him to be a friend; then we hung out more and then he started telling people i was his gf when i already had a bf; my bf didn't like him and wanted to stop being friends with him, i said no (who the hell was he to try and control my life?) and then the dude started spreading rumors and word got to my bf that i actually liked this dude (totally untrue) and then later he broke up w/ me (which was fine w/ me, actually).
then this guy started walking me home even though it was out of his way, was walking me to all my classes even though it was out of his way, he basically wouldn't give me any space, plus he got jealous of every guy friend i talked too, and he wasn't even my bf! and he kept telling everybody and their dog he liked me, and then when i got a new bf he started talkin shit about him, and i got tired of it and ignored him for a month.
but then i felt bad, and told him i was sorry, that i should've talked things out. so we were "friends" for awhile, until he started creeping back into my life, walking me home, following me, etc. then he sends me this freaky ass email telling me he's in love with me! what the fuck?! it was scary as hell! so i put it to him staright, told him i didn't like him, never did, never would, etc. then he sends one back saying some bs, and then i ignored him again.
then about a month ago he sends me another email, some bullshit like "best friends are forever" and some shit, ugh it was sickening! well, friday was my b-day, tell me why this dude has 10 helium balloons, a small cake w/ my name on it, 2 $20 shirts, a new soccer ball, and candy delivered to my soccer practice that day?! what the fuck?! i haven't spoken to the guy in 2 months, and then all this? i couldn't even believe he remembered! it was nice and all, but...it made me nervous. and then in the card there was this long ass message, more bd about "best friends". for the third time, what the fuck?! how am i your best friend? yeah, best friends ignore each other cause they think the other is a stalker and is obsessed w/ them! yeah!
i sent a thanks email, figuring he deserved it, i actually wore one of the shirts to school today, and was gonna say thanks in person, but dude makes me nervous as hell and i hid from him, and i know he saw! shit! there! i don't know what to do, i don't want him to think i'm ungrateful but shit, he SCARES me! and there's so much more shit he did that's weird that i won't even get into! shit!
SHOOT HIM IN THE FACE!
all stalkers eventually get the bullet, that is the only way to get rid of them.
look out for yourself fuck everyone else.
PUT A BULLET IN HIS FUCKIN HEAD!!!
otepsoul
05-17-2004, 05:07 PM
SHOOT HIM IN THE FACE!
all stalkers eventually get the bullet, that is the only way to get rid of them.
look out for yourself fuck everyone else.
PUT A BULLET IN HIS FUCKIN HEAD!!!
just kick him in the forehead.
OuttaControlX
05-18-2004, 09:25 PM
i suggest u hide, and get a restraining order
Bitch
05-19-2004, 10:14 AM
what the fuck is with this dude?! when i first met him he seemed to like me a lot but i just considered him to be a friend; then we hung out more and then he started telling people i was his gf when i already had a bf; my bf didn't like him and wanted to stop being friends with him, i said no (who the hell was he to try and control my life?) and then the dude started spreading rumors and word got to my bf that i actually liked this dude (totally untrue) and then later he broke up w/ me (which was fine w/ me, actually).
then this guy started walking me home even though it was out of his way, was walking me to all my classes even though it was out of his way, he basically wouldn't give me any space, plus he got jealous of every guy friend i talked too, and he wasn't even my bf! and he kept telling everybody and their dog he liked me, and then when i got a new bf he started talkin shit about him, and i got tired of it and ignored him for a month.
but then i felt bad, and told him i was sorry, that i should've talked things out. so we were "friends" for awhile, until he started creeping back into my life, walking me home, following me, etc. then he sends me this freaky ass email telling me he's in love with me! what the fuck?! it was scary as hell! so i put it to him staright, told him i didn't like him, never did, never would, etc. then he sends one back saying some bs, and then i ignored him again.
then about a month ago he sends me another email, some bullshit like "best friends are forever" and some shit, ugh it was sickening! well, friday was my b-day, tell me why this dude has 10 helium balloons, a small cake w/ my name on it, 2 $20 shirts, a new soccer ball, and candy delivered to my soccer practice that day?! what the fuck?! i haven't spoken to the guy in 2 months, and then all this? i couldn't even believe he remembered! it was nice and all, but...it made me nervous. and then in the card there was this long ass message, more bd about "best friends". for the third time, what the fuck?! how am i your best friend? yeah, best friends ignore each other cause they think the other is a stalker and is obsessed w/ them! yeah!
i sent a thanks email, figuring he deserved it, i actually wore one of the shirts to school today, and was gonna say thanks in person, but dude makes me nervous as hell and i hid from him, and i know he saw! shit! there! i don't know what to do, i don't want him to think i'm ungrateful but shit, he SCARES me! and there's so much more shit he did that's weird that i won't even get into! shit!
Seriously, This guy is a stalker and is capable of doing more shit to get your attention. Stay the hell away from this turd! Get a restraining order and stick by that restraining order. Stalkers are capable of doing some seriously mental and physical harm. Look at what he's done. He doesn't want you to be friends with anyone of the oposite sex and he's not even your BF. He's trying to iscolate you from your friends and then once that works, he'll move on to your family. This I can promise you. This way he can do with you as he pleases cause no one would be around to get inbetween you and him. Don't EVER feel bad for him no matter how much effort he puts into being your "friend". The shit he pulled for your birthday is not normal for any relationship. He thinks he's some sort of dream boat for doing thing but it's freaky and only freaks pull shit like that. Don't talk to him, don't answer his calls. If he calls, hang up imediately. Block his number!
When people on here say you are being ungrateful, GOOD! Keep up the good work. Don't apologise to him, and don't thank him, Don't wear the clothes he gives you even if they are cool. Don't give him the satisfaction of pleasing you. Don't even tell him to go away cause he's worth less than dirt, just turn around and walk away from him every time he approaches you. You need to show him you aren't interested, just telling him is giving him attention. Negative as it may be, he's getting some kind of attention from you and that to him is a start. Always be with someone when he's around so he's less likely to do something to you. **Most importantly, tell the teachers, counselors and even the principal about him and what he does to you (remember the "good stuff" isn't really good and needs to be mentioned as well as the bad stuff he's done). Even tell the police so they have his name on record so if something were to happen, they have his behavior on file. What he's doing is not healthy to you nor himself and is a serious mental disease.
People that start off with "innocent" stalking end up killing out of jealousy and insecurity issues. Don't become part of that statistic. End his games now!!
Whitebread
06-11-2004, 10:13 AM
Lets see. He Stalks you, Loves you, Doesnt leave you alone, and Doesnt give you any privacy?
Dont Talk to him, dont make Eye contact with him, dont give him any gifts to show appreciation of the ones he gave you, as Ctoit said, it will just get him up and going again. =\
If he as so much shows that hes about to start his normal Bullshit again, refer him to someone, if not, talk it over with your boyfriend and set up something to get him to STFU once and for all...
Damn...Wtf...The man has no life...
VelvetAcid
06-11-2004, 05:23 PM
what the fuck is with this dude?! when i first met him he seemed to like me a lot but i just considered him to be a friend; then we hung out more and then he started telling people i was his gf when i already had a bf; my bf didn't like him and wanted to stop being friends with him, i said no (who the hell was he to try and control my life?) and then the dude started spreading rumors and word got to my bf that i actually liked this dude (totally untrue) and then later he broke up w/ me (which was fine w/ me, actually).
then this guy started walking me home even though it was out of his way, was walking me to all my classes even though it was out of his way, he basically wouldn't give me any space, plus he got jealous of every guy friend i talked too, and he wasn't even my bf! and he kept telling everybody and their dog he liked me, and then when i got a new bf he started talkin shit about him, and i got tired of it and ignored him for a month.
but then i felt bad, and told him i was sorry, that i should've talked things out. so we were "friends" for awhile, until he started creeping back into my life, walking me home, following me, etc. then he sends me this freaky ass email telling me he's in love with me! what the fuck?! it was scary as hell! so i put it to him staright, told him i didn't like him, never did, never would, etc. then he sends one back saying some bs, and then i ignored him again.
then about a month ago he sends me another email, some bullshit like "best friends are forever" and some shit, ugh it was sickening! well, friday was my b-day, tell me why this dude has 10 helium balloons, a small cake w/ my name on it, 2 $20 shirts, a new soccer ball, and candy delivered to my soccer practice that day?! what the fuck?! i haven't spoken to the guy in 2 months, and then all this? i couldn't even believe he remembered! it was nice and all, but...it made me nervous. and then in the card there was this long ass message, more bd about "best friends". for the third time, what the fuck?! how am i your best friend? yeah, best friends ignore each other cause they think the other is a stalker and is obsessed w/ them! yeah!
i sent a thanks email, figuring he deserved it, i actually wore one of the shirts to school today, and was gonna say thanks in person, but dude makes me nervous as hell and i hid from him, and i know he saw! shit! there! i don't know what to do, i don't want him to think i'm ungrateful but shit, he SCARES me! and there's so much more shit he did that's weird that i won't even get into! shit! Ever hear of a "period"? :thumbsdn:
rusaccord
06-18-2004, 09:53 AM
Give all of the shit he gave you the hell back! Get some protection - know any football players?
Seije
06-22-2004, 04:58 PM
I'd be the same way if I ever finally get a gf, but since this guy's not ur bf, then this is really messed up
so yes try to get rid of him as the others r saying as for protection
but be careful, u resent this guy too hard, he may lash out violently when ur tottally unaware, or he'll do something secretly like break ur car window in revenge...it;s a scary world with nut jobs like this so watch ur back is all i'm saying
but i'm probably wrong when i say this but i think he;s just got this huge crush on u and thinks 'ur the one' or something...but if he's truly not a bad person, doesn't have a bad background, then maybe u should try to get along with him, he;s treating u nicely from what u say and ur not giving him credit,,u don't have to be his gf, but at least give him credit...
and from reading ur story this really backs up everyone else's idea i've read that girls truly hate nice guys
pakdatson
06-28-2004, 03:16 PM
That Guy Need A Restraining Order
sugardreams054
07-04-2004, 11:54 PM
whoa. looks like that guy might have some psychological problems. maybe not. either way you should have a talk with him (maybe) and tell him to stop sending you things, and stop talking to you. if you're really mean about it he might turn on you or something. If that doesn't work, have your parents talk to his parents about leaveing you alone, and maybe a guidance counselor. i dunno these ideas are just totally off the top of my head and you might have tried them before but oh well. good luck
MUDDOO_FUCKOO
07-05-2004, 08:02 AM
just sleep with him and be done with it
first are you old enough? is this one of those middle or juniour high school shit that means nothing?
and didnt ne one see swim fan? stalkers go for all the friends and then they rape them.
im gonna agree with the shoot him deal
HiaWataH
07-05-2004, 08:37 AM
just sleep with him and be done with it
are you stupid or something ??? !!!!
HiaWataH
07-05-2004, 08:40 AM
Seriously, This guy is a stalker and is capable of doing more shit to get your attention. Stay the hell away from this turd! Get a restraining order and stick by that restraining order. Stalkers are capable of doing some seriously mental and physical harm. Look at what he's done. He doesn't want you to be friends with anyone of the oposite sex and he's not even your BF. He's trying to iscolate you from your friends and then once that works, he'll move on to your family. This I can promise you. This way he can do with you as he pleases cause no one would be around to get inbetween you and him. Don't EVER feel bad for him no matter how much effort he puts into being your "friend". The shit he pulled for your birthday is not normal for any relationship. He thinks he's some sort of dream boat for doing thing but it's freaky and only freaks pull shit like that. Don't talk to him, don't answer his calls. If he calls, hang up imediately. Block his number!
When people on here say you are being ungrateful, GOOD! Keep up the good work. Don't apologise to him, and don't thank him, Don't wear the clothes he gives you even if they are cool. Don't give him the satisfaction of pleasing you. Don't even tell him to go away cause he's worth less than dirt, just turn around and walk away from him every time he approaches you. You need to show him you aren't interested, just telling him is giving him attention. Negative as it may be, he's getting some kind of attention from you and that to him is a start. Always be with someone when he's around so he's less likely to do something to you. **Most importantly, tell the teachers, counselors and even the principal about him and what he does to you (remember the "good stuff" isn't really good and needs to be mentioned as well as the bad stuff he's done). Even tell the police so they have his name on record so if something were to happen, they have his behavior on file. What he's doing is not healthy to you nor himself and is a serious mental disease.
People that start off with "innocent" stalking end up killing out of jealousy and insecurity issues. Don't become part of that statistic. End his games now!!
Finaly somebody who doesn't react impulsive....wise words Bitch :thumbsup:
E-Chan...this is a good advise Bitch gave you...
RGN-dRaGoN
07-05-2004, 10:16 AM
don't be a fuckin sissy, walk up to him, bitch-slap him to get his complete attention.. and tell him that he freaks you out! tell him the truth!
and then, if he has any sort of of commen sense, he'll most likely stop..
.. if not.. he's psychotic! therefore follow through with youknowthedeal's plan..
no, that is the stupidist thing ever, ur gonna break the poor guys heart and then if he has a temper or anything he is gonna go after her and she can be the victim. hey dont listen to these peeps when they say to do this to him... he is obvouisly upsessed with you, my recomendation is to try and let him down easy, dont thank him, thas just gonna edge him on, and dont ignore him thas gonna make him try harder. just let him down, with a plain
" look i dont like you, i think you should stop upsessing over me, its really creeping me out and i want you to stop, if you really did care about me you would stop, ok?"
really.. dont go hard on the guy... it might result to a worst disaster than it already is
WiccaChick
08-27-2004, 05:02 PM
......
Zickddot
09-05-2004, 01:39 PM
JESUS DID U GUYS NOTICED SHE HASNT REPLIED IN A LONG TIME MAYBE SHES ALREADY DEAD!!!!!!!!!!! :frown:
Unforgiven
09-05-2004, 01:39 PM
or maybe she got bored of our stupidity :sad:
RGN-dRaGoN
09-05-2004, 05:15 PM
JESUS DID U GUYS NOTICED SHE HASNT REPLIED IN A LONG TIME MAYBE SHES ALREADY DEAD!!!!!!!!!!! :frown:
neh, i posted at this 1 like.... 2 months ago
evilghoul
09-10-2004, 04:58 PM
Holy SHIT, he does love you! But honestly, just tell him how you feel, ignore him if he pisses you off, and *hopefully* he will learn to stop annoying you.
BRATTLE!
09-24-2004, 08:13 AM
maybe u should pretend that u really like him, take him to the bedroom and when he is lying back expecting to be pleasured.. CUT OFF HIS PENIS :sword:
otepsoul
09-24-2004, 11:34 AM
what the fuck is with this dude?! when i first met him he seemed to like me a lot but i just considered him to be a friend; then we hung out more and then he started telling people i was his gf when i already had a bf; my bf didn't like him and wanted to stop being friends with him, i said no (who the hell was he to try and control my life?) and then the dude started spreading rumors and word got to my bf that i actually liked this dude (totally untrue) and then later he broke up w/ me (which was fine w/ me, actually).
then this guy started walking me home even though it was out of his way, was walking me to all my classes even though it was out of his way, he basically wouldn't give me any space, plus he got jealous of every guy friend i talked too, and he wasn't even my bf! and he kept telling everybody and their dog he liked me, and then when i got a new bf he started talkin shit about him, and i got tired of it and ignored him for a month.
but then i felt bad, and told him i was sorry, that i should've talked things out. so we were "friends" for awhile, until he started creeping back into my life, walking me home, following me, etc. then he sends me this freaky ass email telling me he's in love with me! what the fuck?! it was scary as hell! so i put it to him staright, told him i didn't like him, never did, never would, etc. then he sends one back saying some bs, and then i ignored him again.
then about a month ago he sends me another email, some bullshit like "best friends are forever" and some shit, ugh it was sickening! well, friday was my b-day, tell me why this dude has 10 helium balloons, a small cake w/ my name on it, 2 $20 shirts, a new soccer ball, and candy delivered to my soccer practice that day?! what the fuck?! i haven't spoken to the guy in 2 months, and then all this? i couldn't even believe he remembered! it was nice and all, but...it made me nervous. and then in the card there was this long ass message, more bd about "best friends". for the third time, what the fuck?! how am i your best friend? yeah, best friends ignore each other cause they think the other is a stalker and is obsessed w/ them! yeah!
i sent a thanks email, figuring he deserved it, i actually wore one of the shirts to school today, and was gonna say thanks in person, but dude makes me nervous as hell and i hid from him, and i know he saw! shit! there! i don't know what to do, i don't want him to think i'm ungrateful but shit, he SCARES me! and there's so much more shit he did that's weird that i won't even get into! shit!heres an idea ignore him retard, maybe you should of listened to the ex b/f.