View Full Version : Love...? Bullshit...!
Girls.suck
05-04-2004, 08:12 PM
Am I the only one on this planet who says that love is a bunch of bullshit...? Because my friends are all saying that they are in 'love' AFTER a break so they try SO hard to get back with there ex-spouse. It is pathetic, but the thing that kills me is when him/her get back with there ex- and they are all 'i love you, i love you too' I mean FUCK you are in FUCKING HIGH SCHOOL.. Now tell me if I am wrong but love doesnt happen until what... marrage or after high school when you are mature. Now I dont have much room to talk becuase I am only a freshman but I am not going to tell my girlfriend that 'i love her' because it ruins a relationship. It changes EVERYTHING! Makes the guy vonerable and makes the chick even more domanate than she already is. I mean I like her A LOT and want to be with her for a long while but, I am not going to tell her that I love her..
Now I might be screwed in a while anyway becuase she is a sophomore :thumbsdn: . But I will keep my cool and not freak. :thumbsup:
Now back to the 'love' conversation... All around I hear 'i love you' and it makes me laugh because then it's, 'i hate you'. NOW THERE IS A WTF??? RIGHT THERE.
Now thats why I say love is bullshit until you have matured enough to know what it means. And I have still yet to encountered TRUE LOVE so some of you might think i am crazy or stupid but I beleive that I will know when I find it..
Thanks for listening to me rant..
GottaHurt
05-04-2004, 08:15 PM
Am I the only one on this planet who uses a royal blue font?
Yes, and it's annoying as hell to read it
Girls.suck
05-04-2004, 08:20 PM
Yes, and it's annoying as hell to read it
Well thanks for you honesty but I dont think that was the reply I was looking for...? lol
yowatupdogg
05-04-2004, 08:25 PM
well yes that was stupid a waste of ur time
is that a good response :mfinger:
GottaHurt
05-04-2004, 08:26 PM
Well thanks for you honesty but I dont think that was the reply I was looking for...? lol
Thanks for the font change.
You're on the right track on the subject of love. It just happens, there's really no explanation, you don't always get to choose who you fall in love with either, sometimes that just happens too.
Most teenagers or high schoolers confuse love with infatuation.
If you have a g/f or b/f in school, that's fine, but stay focused on the prize, your education and your future...
yowatupdogg
05-04-2004, 08:32 PM
^word
Girls.suck
05-05-2004, 08:57 PM
Thanks for the font change.
You're on the right track on the subject of love. It just happens, there's really no explanation, you don't always get to choose who you fall in love with either, sometimes that just happens too.
Most teenagers or high schoolers confuse love with infatuation.
If you have a g/f or b/f in school, that's fine, but stay focused on the prize, your education and your future...
Yeah, thanks man. I just wanted to know how other people thought about that subject.. I have no one to love other then my family so I dont say it even as a joke around thing.. :)
Deez Nutz
05-05-2004, 09:34 PM
Am I the only one on this planet who says that love is a bunch of bullshit...? Because my friends are all saying that they are in 'love' AFTER a break so they try SO hard to get back with there ex-spouse. It is pathetic, but the thing that kills me is when him/her get back with there ex- and they are all 'i love you, i love you too' I mean FUCK you are in FUCKING HIGH SCHOOL.. Now tell me if I am wrong but love doesnt happen until what... marrage or after high school when you are mature. Now I dont have much room to talk becuase I am only a freshman but I am not going to tell my girlfriend that 'i love her' because it ruins a relationship. It changes EVERYTHING! Makes the guy vonerable and makes the chick even more domanate than she already is. I mean I like her A LOT and want to be with her for a long while but, I am not going to tell her that I love her..
Now I might be screwed in a while anyway becuase she is a sophomore :thumbsdn: . But I will keep my cool and not freak. :thumbsup:
Now back to the 'love' conversation... All around I hear 'i love you' and it makes me laugh because then it's, 'i hate you'. NOW THERE IS A WTF??? RIGHT THERE.
Now thats why I say love is bullshit until you have matured enough to know what it means. And I have still yet to encountered TRUE LOVE so some of you might think i am crazy or stupid but I beleive that I will know when I find it..
Thanks for listening to me rant..
Um, well... I'm 15 and almost a sophmore. And I've been in love twice. Once with my ex which I was with for 4 months. And I love my current girlfriend even more, we've been together 5 months and we're doing really good :) Love can happen at any age around 7th grade and up. Just depends on the people, and you. If you don't think I'm in love with my girlfriend I can describe what I feel about her to you...
Deez Nutz
05-05-2004, 09:36 PM
You're on the right track on the subject of love. It just happens, there's really no explanation, you don't always get to choose who you fall in love with either, sometimes that just happens too.
You're exactly right. This is a quote I've come across that is extremely true:
Your heart has it's own brain, it does what it wants, wether you like it or not. Your heart loves who it wants to love, even if you don't want it to.
That's happened to me before...
Unforgiven
05-05-2004, 10:02 PM
get a girlfriend and your wallet instantly shrinks... funny how that works
wormstrangler
05-06-2004, 08:13 AM
Love - A terrible, horrible infectious disease of the mind, that is falsely portrayed as wonderful by most ignorant individuals. It weakens one, allowing them to be easily manipulated, and eventually leads to nothing but pain and suffering.
When I fell in love with her, I was happy for the first time in my life... Until she tore my still-beating, bloody, dripping heart from my chest cavity, threw it to the ground with all of her might, and then stomped it into a fine paste. Now I am worse off than before. Avoid love like the plague that it is, children. - urbandictionary - love (http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=love&f=1)
love generates the most euphoric, and painful feelings.
people that dont respect, care and generally be considerate to their other half feel the pain more often.
think about it.
_Kitana_
05-06-2004, 08:27 AM
Love - A terrible, horrible infectious disease of the mind, that is falsely portrayed as wonderful by most ignorant individuals. It weakens one, allowing them to be easily manipulated, and eventually leads to nothing but pain and suffering.
When I fell in love with her, I was happy for the first time in my life... Until she tore my still-beating, bloody, dripping heart from my chest cavity, threw it to the ground with all of her might, and then stomped it into a fine paste. Now I am worse off than before. Avoid love like the plague that it is, children. - urbandictionary - love (http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=love&f=1)
I use to be like you, I was a scared little goth girl to afraid to live, untill my husband show me what it means to be alive. Sure I have my fears and i doubt myself now and then but in the end it was worth it.
Did his love hurt at times, Yes, Was it worth it, Yes....
I think you need to go to your local comic book store and buy "Lucifer's Halo" by Joseph Michael Linsner
or order it off the dude site at www.linsner.com
Why cause it a kick ass comic, deals with your lil rant here and where else are you going to read a comic where someone slices off the hand of god..
wormstrangler
05-06-2004, 08:36 AM
I use to be like you, I was a scared little goth girl to afraid to live, untill my husband show me what it means to be alive. Sure I have my fears and i doubt myself now and then but in the end... but it was worth it.
You use to be a guy?!? :P
It's nice that you're worrying about me, but really, I'm fine. Someones cheated on me, but that's as worse as my relationships go.
I like taking the negative approach on the outside even though I'm pretty damned satisfied on the inside :)
_Kitana_
05-06-2004, 08:45 AM
You use to be a guy?!? :P
It's nice that you're worrying about me, but really, I'm fine. Someones cheated on me, but that's as worse as my relationships go.
I like taking the negative approach on the outside even though I'm pretty damned satisfied on the inside :)
It depends on how far the cheating went, how long you been in the relationship and if the person truly regrets it if its worth staying in
i cant ever imagine myself cheating on someone.
id hate myself forever if i did.
im falling in love with a girl at the moment, and i dont even consider any other girl. the thought makes me sick.
wormstrangler
05-06-2004, 08:49 AM
It depends on how far the cheating went, how long you been in the relationship and if the person truly regrets it if its worth staying in
We're still friends(kinda). And it seems she's trying to get back with me right now. Position of power is good :cool:
I got to say, the whole thing gave me a whole new outlook. I've promised to never cheat on anyone and to never help someone cheat. It's just fucked.
Girls.suck
05-06-2004, 05:22 PM
Love - A terrible, horrible infectious disease of the mind, that is falsely portrayed as wonderful by most ignorant individuals. It weakens one, allowing them to be easily manipulated, and eventually leads to nothing but pain and suffering.
When I fell in love with her, I was happy for the first time in my life... Until she tore my still-beating, bloody, dripping heart from my chest cavity, threw it to the ground with all of her might, and then stomped it into a fine paste. Now I am worse off than before. Avoid love like the plague that it is, children. - urbandictionary - love (http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=love&f=1)
DAMN RIGHT that is what I wanted to here. I would say Amen but i dont believe in that stuff.
Unforgiven
05-06-2004, 08:48 PM
When I fell in love with her, I was happy for the first time in my life... Until she tore my still-beating, bloody, dripping heart from my chest cavity, threw it to the ground with all of her might, and then stomped it into a fine paste. Now I am worse off than before. Avoid love like the plague that it is, children. - urbandictionary - love (http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=love&f=1)
I know how that feels... except the stomping part
yowatupdogg
05-06-2004, 09:37 PM
when the water is cold ur wang shrinksfunny how that worksyyyyyy
when the water is cold ur wang shrinksfunny how that worksyyyyyyi cant thankyou enough for how helpful that fact is.
they say you learn something new everyday. i try to keep it to just one thing a day, so when i dont learn something, i just pull up an old useless fact, like this.
but i already knew that.
Girls.suck
05-07-2004, 10:55 AM
when the water is cold ur wang shrinksfunny how that worksyyyyyy
What in the hell did that have to do with anything...?! LOL
And my wallet is shrinking and I only have had my girlfriend for a week. But yeah... It is funny how that works
_Kitana_
05-07-2004, 12:46 PM
What in the hell did that have to do with anything...?! LOL
And my wallet is shrinking and I only have had my girlfriend for a week. But yeah... It is funny how that works
Hey thats us girls trade secret...
Girls.suck
05-07-2004, 05:16 PM
Hey thats us girls trade secret...
Well the secret is out... haha
yowatupdogg
05-07-2004, 06:02 PM
what i sat is never on topicits crzy
funkifreak13
06-10-2004, 06:35 PM
i'd think that sometimes 'love' doesn't necisarily indicate a permanant thing, just a strong feeling. like you can be happy for a while and then pissed for a while. you can love someone and maybe it just fades away. i do think the phrase 'i love you' can be overused and mess up a relationship, though. it's like an extra responsibility to make the relationship work out and be perfect, etc.
btw, it's you not the girls that suck...
tharuz
06-10-2004, 10:42 PM
did i mention i dislike americans?
Love and hate are very similar things
magnolia
06-14-2004, 03:50 PM
both emotions are really strong and really hard to deal with
red soviet
06-14-2004, 05:19 PM
females here are stupid btichs, i'd never go out with anybody in this town, sluts everywhere
hollisterguy
06-18-2004, 02:54 AM
I'm going to be a senior soon and I have learned to not lower your confidence level...just because the girl is older doesn't mean she is going to break up with you. My ex is 18 and it lasted a good while, I THOUGHT I loved the girl but now i look at it as infatuation. Just don't let yourself get attached easily and you'll be fine. I second the comment that your wallet shrinks.
HintOfClarity
06-18-2004, 07:50 PM
Yes, and it's annoying as hell to read it
Ah...but it's even more annoying to read yellow font.
Seije
06-18-2004, 08:37 PM
u know I've never had a girlfriend and I just turned 19 last wednesday,
some ppl have told me that they envy my situation because I've had my life having fun doing things the way I wanted too, and spending my money the way I want too, my dad even told me that cause he got married when he was 17 and my mom19 was pregnant with me
and they say I might even find a stronger love for waiting longer, but I still long for it more everyday
HintOfClarity
06-18-2004, 08:41 PM
u know I've never had a girlfriend and I just turned 19 last wednesday,
some ppl have told me that they envy my situation because I've had my life having fun doing things the way I wanted too, and spending my money the way I want too, my dad even told me that cause he got married when he was 17 and my mom19 was pregnant with me
and they say I might even find a stronger love for waiting longer, but I still long for it more everyday
i admire that! that's really cool!
Seije
06-19-2004, 02:26 PM
i admire that! that's really cool!
thanx, its' been fun living life they u should try to at least...but on the other hand I don't want to make "having a girlfriend" a life goal or something, I have that saved for getting my eletrical engineering degree, getting a nice house, modding my truck, and earning lots of money, and so far I'm on track....I guess to me women are sought as someone to share ur life with and to be with to make life more interesting when u have everything u want already
HintOfClarity
06-19-2004, 07:05 PM
what i sat is never on topicits crzy
that's good times. i like to do that sometimes.
HintOfClarity
06-19-2004, 07:07 PM
i think pringles initial intention was to make tennis balls. but pringles is a laid back company, and on the day when the rubber was supposed to arrive & they saw they got potatoes instead they said "FUCK IT! CUT 'EM UP!"
magnolia
06-20-2004, 12:49 PM
Um, well... I'm 15 and almost a sophmore. And I've been in love twice. Once with my ex which I was with for 4 months. And I love my current girlfriend even more, we've been together 5 months and we're doing really good :) Love can happen at any age around 7th grade and up. Just depends on the people, and you. If you don't think I'm in love with my girlfriend I can describe what I feel about her to you...
My aunt and uncle dated since Jr. High and they just celebrated their 30th wedding aneversary. (I can't spell worth shit, so bear with me) I totally agree with u.
KMI7888
07-04-2004, 12:23 AM
yup love is a load of crap. i had a GF once, and now i dont think ill ever believe in love.
then again, she would check out other guys on our dates. girls, u think us guys are bad?
*sigh*
TheLampIncident
07-04-2004, 12:57 AM
I gave up on love on February 6th, 2002(don't ask how I remember the date). As far as I'm concerned, it's a waste of time, and I'm quite content to just masturbate all my cares away.
bigdouth
07-04-2004, 01:10 AM
[QUOTE=As far as I'm concerned, it's a waste of time, and I'm quite content to just masturbate all my cares away.[/QUOTE]
Sex isn't the only thing associated with love. There's a deep emotional bond that the two of you share with nobody else. Also, there's someone there to wash your clothes and do the dishes for you. That's why marriage is so important. :tongue:
Max Jimbo
07-18-2004, 05:25 PM
Am I the only one on this planet who says that love is a bunch of bullshit...? Because my friends are all saying that they are in 'love' AFTER a break so they try SO hard to get back with there ex-spouse. It is pathetic, but the thing that kills me is when him/her get back with there ex- and they are all 'i love you, i love you too' I mean FUCK you are in FUCKING HIGH SCHOOL.. Now tell me if I am wrong but love doesnt happen until what... marrage or after high school when you are mature. Now I dont have much room to talk becuase I am only a freshman but I am not going to tell my girlfriend that 'i love her' because it ruins a relationship. It changes EVERYTHING! Makes the guy vonerable and makes the chick even more domanate than she already is. I mean I like her A LOT and want to be with her for a long while but, I am not going to tell her that I love her..
Now I might be screwed in a while anyway becuase she is a sophomore :thumbsdn: . But I will keep my cool and not freak. :thumbsup:
Now back to the 'love' conversation... All around I hear 'i love you' and it makes me laugh because then it's, 'i hate you'. NOW THERE IS A WTF??? RIGHT THERE.
Now thats why I say love is bullshit until you have matured enough to know what it means. And I have still yet to encountered TRUE LOVE so some of you might think i am crazy or stupid but I beleive that I will know when I find it..
Thanks for listening to me rant..
I know some of my friends just went along with all that luvvy-duvvy shit to get their gf's in the sack. So its most likely just words.
arrogantbastard
07-18-2004, 06:21 PM
I had a gf when i was a freshman (she was a junior). It was fun for a while, but then she starts looking at this fuck-head in her grade. I dumped her and i was surprised that it actually hurt me to do that to her wtf. I told her to go be a whore because i wasnt going to put up with that shit. So she puts on her little act of how she thought we were in love ..... bla bla. Then she calls me like a week later talking about how she cried and shit. I tell her its all her own fucking fault and hang-up on her (dumb bitch) :mfinger:
you're right love is bullshit when your still in highschool for the most part. :mfinger:
Unforgiven
07-18-2004, 06:32 PM
u know I've never had a girlfriend and I just turned 19 last wednesday,
some ppl have told me that they envy my situation because I've had my life having fun doing things the way I wanted too, and spending my money the way I want too, my dad even told me that cause he got married when he was 17 and my mom19 was pregnant with me
and they say I might even find a stronger love for waiting longer, but I still long for it more everyday
you know what? i'm in the same situation as you... i might find somebody, i might not... either way, i'll survive.
a wise person once told me "Love... it's like licking the honey off thorns."
mdc17
08-02-2004, 11:26 PM
i think pringles initial intention was to make tennis balls. but pringles is a laid back company, and on the day when the rubber was supposed to arrive & they saw they got potatoes instead they said "FUCK IT! CUT 'EM UP!"
haha thats funny...
ne who love is a funny thing... if your in love shouldnt u want to give your all to that person, so why would u promise it and never give it? whats the point...o ya to get us girls in the sack... haha well maybe not all guys just the ones i run into i guess. wish i could find someone to love me like i want to be loved and to treat me how i want to be treated. my guy always thinks its my fault and never wants to look at his mistakes...wheres the point in that, you'll never get anywhere...but i love him and it makes it too hard to end it. guess i'll just have to suffer until i get enough i guess :sad:
Icarus
08-02-2004, 11:52 PM
I think I was in love once...
It kinda sucks... because the person I loved had lots of problems, and couldn't love me back the way I loved her (although I know she wanted to)...
Love is like baseball... you miss more than you hit, but when you hit, its a marvelous thing.
Beh... last summer was miserable.
Love is real, altogether too real... because if it doesn't last, the it leaves a hole larger than most would think.
Unforgiven
08-03-2004, 06:44 PM
girls want a relationship for the romance, 99% of guys want a relationship for the sex.
thomasca
08-13-2004, 11:48 PM
Am I the only one on this planet who says that love is a bunch of bullshit...? Because my friends are all saying that they are in 'love' AFTER a break so they try SO hard to get back with there ex-spouse. It is pathetic, but the thing that kills me is when him/her get back with there ex- and they are all 'i love you, i love you too' I mean FUCK you are in FUCKING HIGH SCHOOL.. Now tell me if I am wrong but love doesnt happen until what... marrage or after high school when you are mature. Now I dont have much room to talk becuase I am only a freshman but I am not going to tell my girlfriend that 'i love her' because it ruins a relationship. It changes EVERYTHING! Makes the guy vonerable and makes the chick even more domanate than she already is. I mean I like her A LOT and want to be with her for a long while but, I am not going to tell her that I love her..
Now I might be screwed in a while anyway becuase she is a sophomore :thumbsdn: . But I will keep my cool and not freak. :thumbsup:
Now back to the 'love' conversation... All around I hear 'i love you' and it makes me laugh because then it's, 'i hate you'. NOW THERE IS A WTF??? RIGHT THERE.
Now thats why I say love is bullshit until you have matured enough to know what it means. And I have still yet to encountered TRUE LOVE so some of you might think i am crazy or stupid but I beleive that I will know when I find it..
Thanks for listening to me rant..
Ugh, for a freshman, you sure talk alot. Now shut up.
deus_ex_machina
08-14-2004, 10:45 AM
Am I the only one on this planet who says that love is a bunch of bullshit...? Because my friends are all saying that they are in 'love' AFTER a break so they try SO hard to get back with there ex-spouse. It is pathetic, but the thing that kills me is when him/her get back with there ex- and they are all 'i love you, i love you too' I mean FUCK you are in FUCKING HIGH SCHOOL.. Now tell me if I am wrong but love doesnt happen until what... marrage or after high school when you are mature. Now I dont have much room to talk becuase I am only a freshman but I am not going to tell my girlfriend that 'i love her' because it ruins a relationship. It changes EVERYTHING! Makes the guy vonerable and makes the chick even more domanate than she already is. I mean I like her A LOT and want to be with her for a long while but, I am not going to tell her that I love her..
Now I might be screwed in a while anyway becuase she is a sophomore :thumbsdn: . But I will keep my cool and not freak. :thumbsup:
Now back to the 'love' conversation... All around I hear 'i love you' and it makes me laugh because then it's, 'i hate you'. NOW THERE IS A WTF??? RIGHT THERE.
Now thats why I say love is bullshit until you have matured enough to know what it means. And I have still yet to encountered TRUE LOVE so some of you might think i am crazy or stupid but I beleive that I will know when I find it..
Thanks for listening to me rant..
are you gay or something? girls dont suck (well, for me they do but blahblahblahuisgaeiu.....) *checks to see if this is in B&T section* damn. its not.
Skylight_night
08-21-2004, 12:55 AM
..i hate it when people in high school and stuff start dating and then two weeks later they're all "I LOOOOOVE!! -- I LOVE YOU TOO" I mean I believe that love doesnt have an age but a maturity level...but still...maybe the people at my school are just completely immature! hrm...I dont like to use those three words without knowing that i mean them. they shouldnt be thrown around so much. im a senior in HS and i've been dating my boyfriend for 11 months and we say "i love you" but not every minute of every day...actually i dont think we say it everytime we see each other...oh well...yeah i'm sure you all dont give a crap about wot i just said...but i really dont care!
-Night-
TarkinRocher
09-29-2004, 05:54 PM
Love is caring about someone so much that you have no more expectations from them. You just want them to be happy. I have never been in love, and I'm not sure if I ever will.
Unforgiven
09-30-2004, 12:05 AM
Love...
does not exist in this world.
dustinzgirl
09-30-2004, 12:07 AM
Love...
does not exist in this world.
you are such a pessimist.
:tongue:
Unforgiven
09-30-2004, 12:13 AM
you are such a pessimist.
:tongue:
i know.
it's great :)
Fire_ze_Missles
09-30-2004, 12:13 AM
The only kind of love is the love between a man and his right hand. :thumbsup:
gumercules
09-30-2004, 12:21 AM
nice avatar, in that case