MY Situation...

[Ni99aRuss]

this thread contained too much personal shit....must destroy it before any one who matters sees it....

[twofivekidd9]

Liz obviously is starting to fall for you because you're a stable and attractive guy. She needs someone to love on because she doesn't have such a good life. If your ex always fights with you, I think you made the right choice by staying away. That chick might be cool by bringing you food and still talks to you, but tell her to back off. You're not going out with her anymore, so let her know she should start looking for other guys. Maybe you could even give her the hook up with one of your buddies. I don't know everything about Liz's home and life situation, but she sounds like she needs someone to hold, someone to love. If she is starting to fall for you, and you can see yourself falling for her, you should definitly take advantage of the situation and start dating her.

[Ni99aRuss]

again....more incriminating shit.... :mfinger:

[Bitch]

It sounds to me like if you are still thinking about your ex, you aren't completely over her. If you start dating this new girl Liz, you may start comparing her and if anything seems familiar you will start resenting her. You must get over your first before dating anyone new. If you think you may still like your ex talk to her. Try to work things out. 4 years is a long relationship to get over and may be worth a second chance. Everyone has stupid arguments in these long term relationships so maybe this little time apart is all you both needed. But I strongly advize you not date anyone until you are truly over your last relationship. It isn't fair to Liz who obviously has enough baggage of her own to carry on your baggage as well. As along as you are thinking about your ex, that is baggage you are passing on to Liz. Liz does sound like she is looking for stability and maybe she feels she has it with you, but it's not fair to her if you cannot offer what she needs in return whole heartedly.

[screw_you_jack]

AHHH, now i see... I'd have to agree with Bitch.... You need to get over the first girl before you can move on seriously. 4 years is a long time. You still have a good relationship with your ex, do you ever want to go back there? Frist thing frist, you need to put the impostant things in your life frist. YOu have to be at peace in yourself, no regrets, to move on. You say you really like this girl liz, well then don't throw that away, but take your time. No one can give you advice becuase no one is in that exact situation, but i will suggest you decide what you want in your life, and then go for it

[josiegrossie]

i would say two things. i have been in your situation and you have to decide for yourself whether the feelings that you're feeling for your ex are because you're comfortable with her or because you actually care about her? and even then, if you do genuinely care about her, just because you care about someone doesn't mean that you guys are right together. i mean, there are plenty of guys that i COULD develop feelings for. it just all boils down to whether the circumstances with that person are right or not. and as for liz, two things: 1.) a lot of who a person is is defined by the way that they were brought up and the people that they hang around with. as much as they would try to deny it, it's hard to get away from the core of someone's being like that, even if they're things that they don't like about themselves. but with that said, 2.) it wouldn't hurt to just try it and see. that might help you to know how you really do feel about your ex, while letting you really get to know this new girl. sometimes it's not enough, though, to just care for someone. take it from me--if you've read my thread on "don't date this guy", you'll realize that i know exactly how it feels...

[Deez Nutz]

Don't go back with your ex. If ya'll fight a lot when you went out, it won't work out ever. I've been in that situation plenty enough... Me and my gf went out and broke up 4 times. We just fought too much. Try to really get to know Liz before you go out with her. Personality counts more than sexuality. Even if your gf is a sex godess, if she's a bitch, dump her.

[GottaHurt]

Play 'em both until you find someone new that you're compatable with.

[Ni99aRuss]

this part wasnt important....

[Jeranamo]

stay single bro and just let the liz girl keep sleeping around with you. If you really wanna get w/ liz though i'd say slowly stop talking to your ex so much and then get with liz. It'll keep your mind off your ex if you slowly end one thing and slowly start another. GL

[Ni99aRuss]

New update: Im with my ex.....things are better than ever...

[otepsoul]

this thread contained too much personal shit....must destroy it before any one who matters sees it....
hmmmm do i want to know

[Ni99aRuss]

you are not any one that matters...sorry