Tell me..

[meh_it_all]

Ok, Well this is my first thread in the calm bar as we so affectionatly call it and, I know people want more threads (have you noticed the tallywackers had like 30 threads in one week or something? :confused: ) anywho.
This isn't really a problem or anything, I was just wandering.
I had sex with my boyfriend of over a year for the first time about two weeks ago, It was a first for the both of us, anywho, I was on top.. and not too say, It REALLY hurt.. obviously, if you penetrate anything.. It's goona hurt,
I just wanna know if it will hurt so much the second time?
Views would be cool. Thanks

[Nymphchick]

ummmmmm it depends. it did for me, but dude was big ;) so take your time, penatrate slow and enjoy

[magnolia]

It didn't hurt for me when he was on top, but when I went on top it hurt so badly. It was a good hurt though. It hurt the second time too, but I'm told it gets better the more you do it.

[NaughtyGirl21]

Yes it does infact hurt more when you are on top of the guy than when the guy is on you. Personally I like the guy to be on top, I know that makes me sound lazy, but it feels so much better.

But for the past 3 years, I hurt a lot because my man is huge...lol.

[switch_scribe]

I think it depends. I didn't have sex at all for awhile after my first time, so then it didn't hurt the second time (well, not in a bad way). KY or Astroglide - they are your friends, especially if your man has yet to learn the meaning of the word foreplay.

Most women really like it on top, because then they get more sensation. It sounds like your problem might be too much sensation. That's a good problem to have! :thumbsup:

[meh_it_all]

Yeah, I've been told it would hurt on top, I was on top because of the reason he didn't want to hurt me. haha. :tongue: And yeah he's pretty big.