My wife and I have been married 2 years. We got married young, we are 21 and 22 years old now with a 15 month old son. At about the end of november/beginning of december 2009, I noticed some changes...she had started talking to this guy in her office wayyyy to much not to be suspicious. Im talking like 12 hours a day through texting and alot of facebook crap. I confronted her about the situation and she denied that there was anything going on. They would also take off of work the same days. They would also get into work at the same time. So if she was cheating, I knew who it was with. This man is 43 years old, he has children older than my wife. so about a month of this shit goes by, and i continually confront her about it all and then she says how confused she is and doesnt know if she loves me anymore. One day, after visiting her sister we get into a fight and walk out on each other. She later texts me saying she isnt coming home that night. I knew where she was going. My brother and I found out his address and we proceed. We arrive before they do and yes, they both arrived together in his car. And we filmed my wife cheating on me :( She still tried to deny it, she thought i was bluffing about going to his house and filming it. Until i described his house. so now she admits to it annnd we are in the middle of a divorce....sucks. I wish i didnt give a shit about her, this would be much easier. It seems that this all went down hill after she went out to have a drink with the people in her office and decided that she didnt want to be married or have any responsibility anymore....idk, i hate this. If she had just opened up alot earlier about how she felt, maybe we could have fixed it, not now though.....